English

I am a newly-single, thirty-something Goth male. I hold a Bachelor of Science Degree in Digital Animation, and I work remotely from St. Louis, for a small town cable station in the Southwest, doing Graphic Design and Animation. I like to put my lady on a pedestal and shower her with affection. I'm a hopeless romantic and an artist. My calling is to create beauty. My philosophy is that it is better to go through life with the regret of having done something than it is with the regret of having not done something. I take chances; especially with love. Even if it is lost, I wouldn't trade the sweet memories and experiences, or the bitter lessons learned, for all the world's wealth. I prefer deep conversation about all the universe's mysteries to chit-chat, and I prefer the pain of love to the dull monotony and security of loneliness.

I love to cook for my lady. I love to massage her back and feet, read her love poetry, and to go on long walks with her.

Are you the one to ponder life's mysteries with me, even if it is for a wonderful, fleeting, exquisite moment?

Pisces

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Separated

Yes - Sometimes At Home

Yes

Hair

Strategically Placed Tattoo

Black

No pets

No

College Degree

Work At Home

Art / Music / Literature

Graphic Artist/Animator

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - One Or Two

Outcast

Shy, Friendly, Comedic, Dark

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Cooking, Camping, Playing Cards, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Meeting a girl who is moderately shy but has good chemistry with me. Taking her to an Italian or Greek restaurant maybe in the Delmar Loop, talking for hours about each other and finding that we have enough in common to be complimentary. Taking a nice evening walk, holding hands, and looking at all the interesting shops there: talking all the while, and cracking jokes. If there is enough chemistry and mutual attraction, then perhaps we would go back to one of our places and let the night progress as it may. I respect boundaries, but I also don't allow notions of propriety to ruin the opportunity for beautiful experiences when they present themselves. At this point, I would be open to either the date ending as a very precious, but one-time encounter, or to leave the door open to the possibility of it becoming something more.

A relationship with someone who is even more affectionate, and requires more affection, than myself. I don't smother women, but I like being smothered.

Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Christian

Once A Week

I Don't Like Politics

To keep doing what I love for a living, to start a family again, and to find rest in the love of my soul mate.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy

I Don't Like Tv

Comedy, Animation, Horror

Metal, Electronic, Classical, Jazz, Industrial, Reggae

Ancient, History, Horror, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Science Fiction

Anything that involves good people who are good to eachother. I love to just get together and talk about deep, meaningful topics. I love going to the movies, to art galleries, to international restaurants, to bookstores (although I can get into serious trouble there), and to concerts. I also love camping and sitting around the fire at night. I love to cook for my family and friends, and spending time with my daughter. I like shuffleboard, card games (no gambling), chess, and checkers.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I am looking for a woman with a great deal of maturity, but isn't afraid to be a goof-ball. I am looking for a woman who is insanely loyal and affectionate and who in turn loves to be showered with affection and attention. I am looking for a woman who is introspective and loves having discussions about things that interest her, and doesn't see the initiation of a deep discussion as a threat or something that was intended to make her look stupid. She is not too sporty, if at all. I prefer long hair to short, but sometimes short hair works, especially for the cute little mousy type. I love physical beauty, but it has to be accompanied by beauty of the heart. My definitions of beauty are also ones I have defined for myself and not the cookie cutter models with which we are bombarded by the media. I love unusual features and I love women of all shapes and sizes. I am looking for a woman who likes being told she is beautiful, and doesn't have an exterior so tough she can't let me in.

Date, Intimate, Committed